“Be curious. It might lead you to your passion or it might not. You might get nothing out of it at all except a beautiful, long life where all you did was follow your gorgeous curiosity. And that should be enough too”Elizabeth Gilbert
Did you grow up hearing this saying “curiosity killed the cat”? A cautionary tale that suggests pursuing your curiosity would result in dire consequences. Don’t ask questions and do as you’re told, or else! I’m not sure where I heard it or from whom, but as a somewhat curious type, it was a bit disconcerting. Lately, however, there has been a lot written about following your curiosity and that it’s key in discovering your passions. Follow your curiosity, they say, and you will find your passion.
So, with cautious curiosity I decided to dig into the origin of this proverb. And after a bit of research I discovered that it was not curiosity that actually killed it. Phew! The saying “curiosity killed the cat” actually originated as “care killed the cat”, and the word “care” referred to “worry or sorrow”. So, in other words the cat actually worried itself to death. What a misunderstood statement! So as Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Big Magic says, go ahead and “be guided by wonder and curiosity rather than be imprisoned by fear and doubt.”
Passion vs Curiosity
“Find your passion, find your purpose” is a radio ad for a technical college. It seems like a big statement for a technical college. Maybe it should be find a job, earn a living. Either way it’s a good marketing campaign since it taps into many people’s desire to find their passion. So many people say they don’t know what they want to do with their life, and don’t know where to even start to “find their passion.” While many struggle to find even one tiny little passion, some have so many passions they can’t decide which one to follow, so they follow none. So, how do you figure out what you’re passionate about? You follow your curiosity!
“When you’re curious you find lots of interesting things to do”Walt Disney
Follow your curiosity and you’ll find your passion!
Passion is defined as an intense desire felt for something or someone. It’s where emotional impulse prevails over reason. It’s energy! It’s what happens when you fall deeply in love with something. Passion is like flame though – it needs to be fanned otherwise it will die out. Curiosity is a tiny tap on the shoulder — a little whisper in the ear that says, “Hey, that’s kind of interesting… – Elizabeth Gilbert”
Here are six simple ideas to help you explore your curiosities:
- Watch documentaries
- Take a course (online or in a classroom)
- Ask google; search Youtube, etc.
- Better yet, find people that inspire you; ask questions, watch & learn
- Read books
- Go experience it for yourself
Finding what you are passionate about is a journey and curiosity is simply the compass that will guide you. Curiosity is that little voice that asks you, “Are you interested in this? Even just a tiny little bit? Then, why not giving it a go?” Don’t be frustrated if you don’t feel like you know yet. Keep trying new things. It will come even if you have to build it. If you find your passion, or find yourself hot on its trail, don’t give it up. You may discover that it sparks some interest and grows into a full-blown passion that sets your very soul on fire. Or you may find out that sure, you like it, but not that much that you’d turn your life upside down for it. Or maybe you realize that you really hate it. Curiosity totally sent you off the wrong path. But that’s ok. Curiosity is there only to give your clues. It’s your job to follow them and find out where they lead. Maybe it’s a dead end. Maybe it’s a stepping stone to your real passion.